Then you would assume, quite wrongly I imagine that this was an aggressive arguement. I am sorry you are incapable of a grown up arguement in which two adults converse sensibly but have opposing views. See point 2 below:
argument
ˈɑːɡjʊm(ə)nt/
noun
1.
an exchange of diverging or opposite views, typically a heated or angry one.
"I've had an argument with my father"
synonyms:quarrel, disagreement, squabble, fight, difference of opinion, dispute, wrangle, clash, altercation, feud, dissension, war of words, contretemps, exchange of views; More
2.
a reason or set of reasons given in support of an idea, action or theory.
"there is a strong argument for submitting a formal appeal"
synonyms:reasoning, line of reasoning, logic, case; More
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