:-( I thought being self employed u have a choice of the sort of hours and jobs u want to do.
Before when I was doing IT working in the city, I leave home at 5.45am every morning to get to work for 7am and quite often don't leave the office till 7pm or even later but still be on call. With big projects, I also have to work weekends and once did 7 consecutive weekends, Saturday and Sunday, with no extra pay or time off in lieu. The job paid well but because of this I couldn't leave until I got made redundant. The company subsequently went under.
Like the saying, the grass always greener on the other side, I might be wrong about better lifestyle being self employed but having experienced being employed all my life I am willing to give self employ a try.
I am recently qualified as part P installer, now just need to build up some experience.