That's the way it works, size of the array is irrelevant to them, they just want to know how much leccy could be drawn or backfed into the grid. You have an automatic right to backfeed 16Amps (3.6 kw), over that they can refuse the connection, although they have become quite happy with export limitation.As far as I am aware the DNO approves the install based upon the size of the installed inverter not what panels you have. If an extra inverter is required they need to know so they can do an infrastructure impact assessment.
If you install a separate AC battery, they see that as two connections , one for the solar, one for the battery.