Sorry to hear that MKS. Its not the England I cherished and loved either I'm afraid.
That England only exists in our minds now , it will never be the same again , we put our trust in those we elect and they C***** it up totally between them.
I presume your missus is a Kiwi . A comment on Midlands local radio has always stuck with me . One of the phone- in presenters is an Aussie , so this woman calls and says her daughter, who is backpacking in Australia, phoned her to say they had decided to go to New Zealand next. The mother was worried and asks what its like there .
The Aussie presenter says "Think of England 40 years ago and thats basically New Zealand" It was meant as a compliment BTW.
You say " so far the lights have not come on " I'm no expert but I think this country has lost 2 phases , theres a massive volt drop, and because we're now overloaded , the current is too high for the system and its just a matter of time before it all goes mammeries up and the load shedding starts .
In maritime terms , this is the Titanic , there 'aint enough lifeboats, the working classes will be left till last , locked in the lower decks, we can hear the band playing, the iceberg's ahead and no one,s doing anything .
Get off at Cherbourg and take that ship to the southern hemisphere .