I had not thought of DNO imposing a restriction? Would I be able to have 2x30 panels with only 1x30 connected to grid?
They will not approve backfeeding their grid with more than 16A unless agreed with an application made prior to installation. What you will need is an inverter designed to limit the export to whatever they agree - this doesn't stop energy being pumped into the house, what happens if you aren't using the energy is that it cuts output from the system. With panels at 300W and more these days, 30 panels is going to give you 9kWp. You will struggle to find a single phase inverter that does more than 6kW, although you can attach 9kW of panels to that. It maybe worth getting a 3 phase supply from the DNO, which means you can have 3x16A or 12kW to which you can attach around 15kW of panels.
One other point, passivhaus standards probably mean you need very little heating - a friend of mine built his house to those standards, he has single 1kW electric heater to cover the worst of winter and hardly ever uses it.
You can get solar canopies for car charging and inverters designed to do that from your regular solar system. If you have the space and suitable location, it may also be worth looking at a smallish wind turbine. As much as I like the simplicity of solar PV, it doesn't do much in winter, and the recent warm but heavily overcast weather, which I suspect might become the 'norm' due to climate change, is really knocking winter output down.