I think there are several blind alleys in the question here
You have 3 perfectly good 50Hz waveforms in 3 phase, but summed equally (or coupled to another cable) they come to close to zero (hence low Neutral current in 3PH). In practice different load or different coupling means the induced sum is a mess of Harmonics - just like the Neutral. Your measured frequency may tie in to a particular lighting fitting or PC power supply, or Ethernet frequency but as I said good luck deducing that from afar.
Most test gear costing less than £20k is not going to make sense of the harmonic mess . .
Have you actually tried posting a listener by the intercom and going round turning things off ??
You have 3 perfectly good 50Hz waveforms in 3 phase, but summed equally (or coupled to another cable) they come to close to zero (hence low Neutral current in 3PH). In practice different load or different coupling means the induced sum is a mess of Harmonics - just like the Neutral. Your measured frequency may tie in to a particular lighting fitting or PC power supply, or Ethernet frequency but as I said good luck deducing that from afar.
Most test gear costing less than £20k is not going to make sense of the harmonic mess . .
Have you actually tried posting a listener by the intercom and going round turning things off ??