Since OFCOM split up BT's business Sky uses the Openreach network with their equipment located in BT exchanges although I have heard that BT are looking to close a lot of their exchanges with the move to fibre comms so what happens to Sky and Talk Talk will be interesting
Back it the 80's fibre was a totally different technology to what is today, ISTR the big problem wasn't all down government but the fact that a vast amount of the network relied on overhead cabling, the development of reliable overhead fibre has now made FTTP a viable option
The problem BT and now Openreach have is they are government run private companies, and while the government opened the comms market to competition the only competitor that has invested in infrastructure is Virgin and it's numerous predecessors but only in the areas of high population to maximise the return on investment. The Sky, talk talk etc business model seems want to use the BT / Openreach infrastructure as cheap as possible to maximise their profit without any investment of their own in infrastructure and R & D